Robert Young

Writing is an independent activity, right? You work on your own, and all you need is pencil/paper or a computer and your mind. Well, not quite.

Writers need other writers, too. That’s right, other people who are actively engaged in the joys and struggles of putting thoughts, experiences, and knowledge on the page for themselves or for others. Sharing your experiences as well as hearing from others is essential in sustaining a writing passion.

A few days ago I had the good fortune of being asked to present to a group of local writers who meet weekly at the Writer’s Coffee Talk in Eugene. It is a friendly group, the participants of which are working on a variety of writing projects.

I shared with them the five best things I’ve learned during my 30+ years working at writing. The five things are: 1. It’s all a long-shot (so you might as well write what you want); 2. Know your purpose in writing something (to get your name on a book cover, fame, fortune, to share info?); 3. Make your own definition of success (do you really have to write a bestseller and make mounds of money to be successful?); 4. Interest, even strong interest by an editor or agent, doesn’t necessarily lead to publication (so be careful about what you’re willing to rewrite without a signed contract); and 5. When it gets tough, lower your standards and keep going (and going and going!).

It was inspiring to hear what others are doing and interesting to feel the excitement of sharing my own experiences. Yes, writing is mostly a solitary pursuit, but don’t forget the advantages that can be gained by connecting with other writers.

Thanks to Kelly Stewart for the invitation and the hospitality.